“I am passionate about helping adoptees overcome the self-worth the shame and the abandonment that covertly creep into every part of life.”

Phoenix Rising
 

Adoption Coaching

Extensive life issues arise when dealing with adoption, adoptees and the complex world that surrounds this life path. 

 

We celebrate the blessing of a new home, new parents and the new child, however, what lies quietly underneath is the child’s traumatic separation from the mother which is known as the primal wound.

 

The separation is something that adoptees are expected to eventually get over, but there is a great amount of hidden guilt that develops over time and when it hasn't been gotten over, it then leads to an interesting brand of shame in the adoptee’s life.

 

To the outside world the adoptee may seem fine...but lying in the subconscious mind at the cellular level is an entirely different conversation ... a conversation about self-worth and stigmas around abandonment. 

 

This forgotten and many times overlooked piece, shapes and continues to reshape every relationship in the life of the adoptee. 

Psychological and developmental studies show that the separation trauma shifts the neurological system dramatically, changing the basic brain chemistry and the adoptee's ability to process stress.

 

The separation trauma alters thinking, it alters the way you connect with other people, it alters the way you trust and react to different situations, ultimately leading to how the adoptee’s central nervous system becomes hard-wired moving forward.

 

For the adult adoptee, many times any loss no matter how seemingly insignificant has the potential to trigger severe feelings of abandonment and issues of being out of control.

 

Many adoptees have difficulty tolerating intimacy with family, friends, partners and even their own children.
 

 As an adoptee myself I am committed to helping other adoptees overcome the self-worth, guilt, stress, shame, abandonment and the ingrained lack of intimacy issues, that permeate every part of the adoptee’s life and that results in Developmental Trauma Disorders. 

 

Having conquered many of my own adoptee and foster issues and I bring my Shamanic studies of Hypnotherapy, Past Life Regression, Soul Retrieval, Meditation and Guided Journey into my coaching to provide great transformation.

 

I have developed safe and beautiful processes to help retrieve lost memories and to rebuild a pathway back home.

Key questions 

  • Why do I have trouble connecting deeply with people?
     

  • Why do I feel like I’m not included?
     

  • Why do I fear of intimacy?
     

  • Why am I not honest?
     

  • How do I cope with feelings of guilt around wanting to know about my birth family?
     

  • Why do I have feelings of grief and loss on such a deep level?
     

  • Why do I feel lonely around my friends and family? 
     

  • Will I ever feel truly a part of something?
     

  • Why do I feel unworthy?

 

“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.”

 

– Brené Brown

What to expect in our session together

  • Tools to feel grounded and home
     

  • Hypnotherapy for PTSD
     

  • Soul Retrieval
     

  • Past Life Regression to understand your
    Soul”s contract in terms of your adoption path

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I am committed to helping you know yourself and to become happy, healthy, present, abundant, powerful and loved. Looking forward to hearing from you. 

© 2019 by Phoenix Rising C.Ht